Yesterday felt pretty good

There are so many habits I want to incorporate that I hit about one a month. Hello, blog.

Today I read a car seat manual and learned how to safely transport a baby, then took my neighbors to the store.

I met friends for lunch at a delicious place that I don't go to enough. 

Then I made a new rule that I can't eat at restaurants alone anymore because I do it too often and I'll do it anyway, and I stopped at the grocery store on the way home to get dinner makings.

I took my car through the wash and my winter blankets to the laundromat (ok, so it took me a while) and read my book while they dried. (Yeah! I read a book!)

At home I made everyone's dinner and watched Zodiac while working on my puzzle, then finally took poor Gus for a walk instead of just potties. 

Things are still a mess inside and out, but today I did things, which is great. A neighbor is breaking her lease and asked me to tell her when someone new moves in, because I am always coming and going. "If anyone's gonna know what's going on, it's you," she said. It's nice to know that's true in some areas, anyway. 

This week I like Kacey Musgaves' Wonder Woman.

Whittling down

I've been told by the podcast lady and Sarah that you can reasonably only expect to get 3 things done per day. It is just not possible for me to limit myself to 3 yet, but I'm trying to get down from 27-80. Yesterday I wrote down 6 items and got them all done, which felt amazing and helped me to curl up and watch Dead to Me without guilt.

I'm taking a hoop dance class, which is a lot more fun than I expected, even though you could ask what else that could be but fun. We all drop the hoop constantly and it rolls across the room and runs into people. What's even better is when it rolls away and you chase it and it turns in a big circle so you chase it right back to where you started. There's lots of swirling it around your hand, which is fine on the palm but the back of your hand takes a beating. I have bruises, but the teacher swears it gets better. Yesterday we practiced the rodeo move, which is where you're swirling it over your head like a lasso, then you bring it down over your body and start to waist hoop with it. I can do it about 25% of the time, and it amazed me when it worked- so much that I would forget to keep hooping.

I need to practice, but of course I can't do much in my apartment other than waist hoop, but then Gus comes wandering underneath, and I'm afraid to clobber him in the head, which I know about from lots of unpleasant experience. I'm going to have to go outside in the full view of people and drop my hoop and hit myself in the face a bunch of times. It's super fun, guys!

In answer to your question, I have no plans to hoop at Burning Man or festivals. I think it would be fun to do in inappropriate settings. Let me know if you have any suggestions.

In other news, poor Gus is going blind from cataracts that just got really bad really fast. My friend says that's really common in Chihuahuas, but come on Universe, like this little guy doesn't have enough problems. He's both brave and cautious, trotting on ahead but keeping an ear out for cues from me. He knows up and down and uses that information to negotiate curbs, but I'm pondering the likelihood of him learning right and left. I at least need a GAAAHH sound.

I ordered some wax melts on Amazon in a scent it took forever to find: rich potting soil. It smells good, but like that potting soil crayon, if anybody remembers that, or actual potting soil. They also sent me a sample, which is cool because that shop has a lot of really interesting scents, but unfortunately the sample is cherry tobacco, so I'll pass, thanks. I have a coworker friend who's always on my case about leaving weird offerings in the break room, so she'll love this.

I'm rarely there though, because I started teleworking! I love it and I feel way more productive, but I have to admit that I still have trouble making it to work on time.

The other big news is that I got the new pump and it will go on auto mode on Monday, which means I have to let go of the wheel. The trainer said it took him a month to let go, and to not be like him. It's already turning off the insulin if I go too low. Night Bus is very excited about this new pump and can't wait to look at the sensor graph every two hours.

Still no news on that front, sadly. I remain optimistic and stressed.

Please let me know your favorite wax melt option and I will gladly send it for Christmas. Exhaust fumes, anyone? Puppy breath? They do have really nice ones too, of course, but I am not as fascinated by those.

More tennis lessons

Tennis was great! I'm not moving real fast and I promptly crashed, but it was really nice to be out there again, and these are beautiful courts. I set up a regular time and just like that incorporated some planned exercise into my life. And you know how much I like my life lessons from tennis, so here you go:

Take small steps
Maintain the right amount of distance
Keep your eye on the ball

In other tennis as it relates to life news, I learned that I once again wrote a completely untrue story to explain a gap and punish myself even though Brene Brown told me not to. It makes me think of another situation I'm not going to tell you about where I was telling my therapist what happened and stopped, saying "Hey, you'll be shocked to hear that I figured out a way to blame myself for this."

On a further related note, talking to my boss today, I confessed to dropping the ball on something and she was just not having my self-flagellation. She knew it couldn't be as bad as I thought, and it turns out there were legitimate reasons why I didn't see it (yet another thing I'm not telling, but this time because it's irrelevant- see, I'm learning) and we ended up deciding that you have to let go of the ball in order to juggle. Yeah, see I was just juggling. That's a better story.

What is a dividend?

I keep trying to find time to write just a daily recap and instead it ends up being 11:30 and I'm stressed because the next day has too much packed into it and I'm already starting with less sleep. It's too bad too, because these have been interesting days.

Today is my first tennis lesson in at least a year. It felt so good to put my shoes on. They creaked a lot and I'm not sure if that is out of protest. It will be a short lesson, which probably a good idea.

Today was also my class and I did a review of the math and then we played Jeopardy. It was a hard won battle and the winners received a tiny plastic treasure chest filled with money confetti to symbolize the dividend in a divison problem. It's one way to remember the term- to think of the bracket as a treasure chest and that's where your money goes. Maybe you had to be there.

Coinciding

Sarah and I went to a fundraiser last week and you had to be present for the raffle drawing, which was 2 hours after the start of the event, and you can only wander around Sportsman's Warehouse for so long, so we went up the street to Savers to kill time. Look at this puzzle I found! It's Leesburg! What are you doing here, Leesburg? How did you find me? What do you want from me? I'm sure it's an innocent coincidence, but it would be neat to know the story of who brought it here. It would be a longer blog if I knew that.

Test

Work, you poop parade.

2018

Celebrated New Year’s Eve in downtown Reno with A&N

Taught the School at Work class, swore that would be the last year

Attended the Women’s March with a whole mess of friends

Got regular massages. This angel comes to my home.

Watched The Dark Crystal in the theater with Sarah who had never even seen this movie

Went roller skating with Lena and did not fall down

Flew (?) to San Diego to help Dad after treatment for Dupuytren’s contracture in his hands and made a mental note to do lots of yoga to prevent this from happening to me, then failed to do yoga more than twice.

Watched UFC fights at Alonso’s, including the crazy one with Conor McGregor and Khabib Nurmagomedov

Made glass beads with Sarah

Went to France with Tracy! We hung out in Bordeaux with Mom and Marty for a few days and visited Arcachon, saw cathedrals and wandered downtown in Bordeaux, got tipsy on the views and the wine at Bordeaux chateaus, walked through a medieval town, ate gelato, went to Paris with Tracy where we got pickpocketed in the Metro station, tour bussed around, saw a ballet at the opera house that inspired The Phantom of the Opera, walked through Père Lachaise, ate baguette sammiches, walked up 6 flights of stairs at least twice a day, had an amazing view of the Eiffel Tower from our Airbnb, ate Ladurée macarons, shopped, saw Notre-Dame and Sainte-Chapelle, argued only a little bit, ate steak frites, toured Musée d’Orsay, saw an immersive Klimt exhibit, and overall had an amazing time.

Wing Fest with Sarah and family

Watched a lot of doggos for friends

Got paid to do editing

Participated in the Biggest Little Treasure Hunt again and came in second! We won a cash prize and felt vindicated after coming really close last year. #teamwrongway

Got lots of veterinary care for Gus and Solo. Gus has nonstop stomach problems on top of diabetes, so I found a new vet that specializes in nutrition. He is currently baffling her. Solo is 13 and has thyroid problems, but her medication is good now so she barfs less often, which is helping my sanity tremendously. Gus' health continues to waver, but that does not slow him down in the slightest.

Climbed to the top of an indoor rock wall while petrified. This was also with Sarah, but Sarah was not petrified.

Had regular dinners with Ant. He just turned 20. Can you believe that?

Took a mini road trip to Concord to do the orientation for Dogs4Diabetics. It would be mostly free to get a service dog through this program, but they require a lot of volunteering and follow up from the people that go through it. They really work hard to make the matches successful and I can respect that, but I was a bit turned off by the requirement to be heavily involved in the program and the diabetic community before and after a dog is assigned. Maybe it’s just not the right time, or maybe I am too antisocial. It would also regularly involve a four hour drive, so it seems fair to put this idea on pause. Everyone was giggling that what I actually need is a service dog for Gus. It was worth the trip though, because the whole day was one of the most beautiful drives I have ever taken. It was increasingly striking on the way to Concord, and on the way back there was a sunset and storms and the biggest lightning bolt I have ever seen. I saw it from the top of 80 and saw smoke in Reno soon after. It sounds bad and I did not have a home in the way, but all the contrast and dark, brewing storms and rich colors stunned me. It was gorgeous.

Game night at C&K's

Saw Macbeth with A&N at the Lake Tahoe Shakespeare Festival. We went swimming late in the day and ate a picnic dinner before the show. This is right on the water at Sand Harbor and I spend so much time watching the scenery- it is just gorgeous and pictures do not do anything close to justice. If anyone is looking for a good time to visit, late summer is wonderful.

Was a volunteer beer girl at a golf fundraiser for the Nevada Humane Society. I did a good job drinking the beer.

Helped friends pack and move. :(

Tried Tai chi, and I really enjoyed it, but my trial ended and dude wanted an insane amount of money AND a very long commitment. thank u, next

Went on a hot air balloon ride for 40^th birthday. This was so beautiful and amazing. I’m so glad I went and while it always terrifies me to be high up in the air, the pilot made everyone feel safe. He was exactly what you’d hope for- very professional but welcoming, warm, and full of stories and cheesy tour guide jokes. We launched from and landed on what is legitimately the world’s smallest aircraft carrier and the day was just perfect. Loved, loved, loved this.

Drove to San Diego and stopped in Fresno to see A&N, had a mini GGM with Nik at Dana Point where we talked a lot, saw seals out partying, found a swing set on the beach, and got pedicures. I brought Gus along and he was so good. It was his first road trip with me, and Dad even remarked about what a quiet, well-behaved Chihuahua he is.

Stepped in short notice to play kickball game for a young team that was short on girls. They put me at shortstop and I played the best game of my whole life.

Took Ant to see MFKZ, an anime presentation of a French comic, and we both really enjoyed that.

Played Risk for the first time ever, and was horrified when we just stopped after 5 hours. The game wasn't over yet!!!

Started going to Zumba again and I am starting to get “where were you” from the instructors, so that is helping me show up consistently.

Went to see The Wedding Singer at TMCC with Maria, which was great, as all their productions are.

Went with Sarah to the Zombie Crawl, but I went as a confused person who was just sitting on their couch and got swept along in the madness- an accidental survivor.

Got a dogwalker for Gus, which immediately resolved some terrible behavior problems. Here’s a special scoff for all the dog trainers I read or talked to who insisted that dogs will not pee in their beds, and definitely not out of spite. You are wrong, wrong, wrong.

Voted for people who are not trying to ruin the world

Tried a loosely guided dance class with Sarah and actually… really loved it. We haven’t been back, but holidays be crazy. It’s on my list.

Met with financial planner and made a couple small investments. I made some very conservative (the only time you’ll ever see me say that) choices but also eagerly review my updates in the hopes of a sudden small fortune. It will be best to mostly forget about these.

Read 30 books

Saw Night of the Living Dead in theater with Sarah and Erik, which was really good. This was through Fathom, which is always playing classics or operas or other fun things like Dark Crystal. I’m glad I’m going to these. Makes me happy.

Went to Apple Hill to meet up with A&N and take obligatory fall pictures. This is where people go for fall pictures (and tons of apples) around here.

Went to the Fall Dance Festival with Maria and the girls, and they seemed to enjoy it. This is the end of semester performance for dance majors at UNR, and I love to go see it.

Went recliner shopping with Mike, then went back after about a month after he didn’t like it to pick out a new one for him. Do you know the pressure of trying to pick a recliner for someone else, especially when they are going to sleep in it?

Hosted a coloring party

Visited Daniel in Boyfriendland, Iowa! He has been gone for almost a year now, but he got to do a really short work trip and I went to meet him. It was so good to see each other. You would think this last couple months before he returns would be easy now, but... it still sucks.

Went to an ugly Christmas sweater party/game tournament at C&K's

It was not easy to spend almost the whole year apart from my sweetheart and this political disaster is hell on ice skates, but I got to do some really fun, interesting things with people I love. I feel pretty lucky.